The day I was called a Nazi

Evian: “I salute Chief Rabbi Goldstein for taking a strong stand and urge the whole Jewish community for zero tolerance”
by DR CLIVE EVIAN | Apr 29, 2014

The day I was called a Nazi protesting

sexual abuse in our community

Dr Clive Evian of Johannesburg writes:

Attending a protest is an emotional experience - it’s a sharing of solidarity, an opportunity to express your disapproval, outrage and sometimes disgust. During the apartheid years it was also somewhat frightening - baton charges, violence, possibly bullets and arrest.

I remember as a student going to a large anti-apartheid protest march in Braamfontein together with my anatomy books, in case I was arrested, then I could keep up with my studies in jail!

I also remember toy-toying down Empire Road with many Aids patients, nurses and others, protesting the threat to the closure of the HIV clinic at the Johannesburg hospital where I worked.

The protest against Rabbi Berland for his alleged sexual abuse and his evasion from Israel’s justice system and his expulsion from various countries for this, was an experience, for me, of a different type.

The protest on erev Pesach was much smaller than others in which I participated; it was led by some courageous women and there were very few men in the line, and in addition I was called a Nazi by a fellow Jew - a Nazi because I was showing my outrage against the epidemic of sexual abuse in my very own religious community, since hearing the story of Mannie Waks at the Limmud conference last year, where he told of having been repeatedly sexually abused by the school guard (a fellow religious man).

He came from a very observant family of 17 and on reporting it to the head rabbi and institutions, no action was taken. Eventually, after a long and painful story, he came out in the open and charged his perpetrator.

He then received numerous calls from former classmates who had also been similarly abused. The abuse took place in the mikvoth, at the school and in the shul grounds.

I remember the gymnastics teacher paedophiling generations of children at my primary school here in Johannesburg, a friend of mine molested by his barmitzvah teacher, various female friends who were violated by fathers and uncles and very recently, children molesting other children in schools and shuls etc., this all within my own small circle.

The damaging effect of this form of abuse on the psyche of the victim is usually devastating and its impact is often felt even by the abused’s children for generations.

Invariably the crime is often hidden away, swept under the carpet and the issue clothed in suspicion, mistrust, doubt and conspiracy, and sadly the victim becomes the perpetrator and the perpetrator the victim. Manny and his family were rejected with contempt by his shul community for exposing this crime.

So, when Manny appealed to the audience to have zero tolerance for this plague, this community malignancy, I pledged to myself to support his request. Anyone who really understands the seriousness of this epidemic would also have no tolerance for it.

And when this abuse is perpetrated by revered “holy” leaders, it calls for a very serious community response. 

I salute our Chief Rabbi (Warren Goldstein) for taking a strong stand against it and urge the whole Jewish community for zero tolerance. The followers of such leaders, knowing the allegations, must also take some responsibility.

I do not know whether Rabbi Berland is guilty or not, however, his fleeing from country to country and his evasion of the Israeli justice system, is in itself telling; if you are a holy man, Rabbi Berland, then submit yourself to a court of justice and if you are guilty then you deserve punishment.

Zero tolerance requires our gevurah and any chesed (for the followers) should be conditional and very measured!

I hope to see more people at the next protest.

Dr Clive Evian

4 Comments

  1. 4 Adam Engel from the US 29 Apr
    Seems to be a lot of projection happening in the South African Jewish community. It's easy to protest against a foreigner's alleged abuse. Why don't they come out and protest against local abuse cases which have been 'deftly' swept under the carpet by the religious leadership? What, or whom, are the victims and their sympathizers so afraid of? As the old saying goes, "charity begins at home" and so does healing and fixing.

    So instead of standing on the street corner with signs against a foreigner of whom you have absolutely no knowledge of the story behind it, and in doing so causing anguish, hunger and homelessness to hundreds of his students and their families, on the Holiday we are told "all who are hungry come and eat", why don't you do something conductive to fight this abuse which seems to be growing at a rapid pace in your own community, stories that you know about first hand and not what you merely read on the internet. 

    Do you and your Rabbi need to cover up prior mistakes of acceptance of abusers in your own community by showing zero tolerance from people who come from communities?! Sounds ironic!
  2. 3 Sarah Greenfeld 29 Apr
    With all due respect, Chief Rabbi Goldstein is being hypocritical because he is exhibiting a DOUBLE STANDARD since not too long ago, a close friend of the Chief Rabbi was accused of similar sex-abuse allegations and while he was forced to resign, the Chief Rabbi did all in his power to "sweep under the rug" the whole story and protect his friend as best he could, which the Chief Rabbi only partially managed to do. Since then that other offending rabbi has been allowed back into the South African Jewish community given cover by some of the Chief Rabbi's close rabbinic associates. 
  3. 2 howard shenkle 01 May

    Who gives us the right to judge? They are good people, and the jews are very quick to turn on their people, they are righteous mecnhe, closer to the torah and the light then you Dr Evian could even begin to imagine,

    All jews in sa must be welcomed iwht open arms, no matter what the circumstance is, they are all our brothers and our sisters.

    Howard Jhb

  4. 1 Israeli 04 May

    You are not the only who has been called a Nazi.

    A few years back a local Zionist was also 'called' a Nazi (by a Rabbi) just because he supported Dr. Baruch Goldstein hy'd.

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