Sunday wasn’t a day for bald people to be outside without a hat. But I was, and although it was good to walk around a nursery choosing pots and creepers for our courtyard area, I was pretty much well done after an hour.
My wife on the other hand seemed just to be getting warmed up, and it didn’t take a genius to foresee that there was a significant possibility, left to chance, that we would be spending the rest of the day roasting in the fresh herbs section. Because, Howard, our kitchen needs instant access to thyme. And rosemary, obviously.
By this stage, the two assistants we had co-opted along the way – and no strangers to spousal negotiations – started to become a little skittish and moved the laden trolleys towards the airconditioned indoor pay area. I was impressed by their use of non-verbal cues, and resolved to increase their tip once the car was loaded.
Only, G-d had other plans. Further context is that my wife had also left her purse at home and had asked me for my credit card earlier in the day. For something or other. And it was now very much missing. Her claims that she had given it back to me were patently a poor attempt to grasp at any straw possible, but it was clear that we now had a tiny problem. The helpers, now not only afraid for the loss of their tip, also looked to be afraid for their lives as the establishment refused Samsung Pay, and EFT, and an offer of our youngest born as compensation for the jasmine.
It needs to be known that my wife is significantly more attuned to the whims of G-d than I will ever be. And so, she confidently turned to the cowering assistants and in her most evangelical voice said, “We need to trust that He will help us, and we will find that credit card.” Inspired by her Sunday sermon, they seated me in the cool breeze of the aircon, and went on their mission in search of the card. I’m not exaggerating when I say that they were quite literally chanting, “Trust in G-d! Trust in G-d!” as they went on their walk with G-d. And my wife.
They obviously found it. The nursey is acres large and we had traversed it all in search of the perfect pot and creeper. Which meant that the credit card could have been pretty much anywhere. And yet, they found it, unsurprisingly in fresh herbs. Because our kitchen needed fresh thyme. And G-d would never have abandoned us. Apparently.
Between the religious experience and perhaps the tip they received in gratitude for putting up with us, the nursery assistants were clearly inspired. With “G-d is great!” and “Trust in G-d” as their final words, we left the centre with me grateful I didn’t need to call Investec and my wife glowing from the whole religious experience. So inspiring was it, I wouldn’t be surprised if Goodwill and Kingston didn’t join us for megillah reading on Thursday night.
Which is the point. As annoying as the experience was, my wife was right. Purim is a time of hidden miracles. It’s an illustration of G-d’s presence in every aspect of our lives. And just because this miracle isn’t a grand one, doesn’t mean that He isn’t present.
Sometimes you just have to look for Him in fresh herbs.
Rochelle Anderson
Feb 11, 2021 at 12:44 pm
Very interesting article, and I am still questioning the vaccine delays and supplies-I will remain quiet, as you have said it as it is……
BUT, I too am concerned, as I wear spectacles too.
Not only has my eyesight regressed over the years, but I have blocked tearducts, which often impairs my vision even more.
I administer Xaillin Eye Gel 4 times a day (at times more), and a top-up of Optive Plus eye drops twice a dxy.
Imagine my frustration when I wear my mask…….but I am not moaning; just agrering with you about the misty lenses and impaired vision ever so often.
Having limited mobility and living in a well run retirement complex, I do not mix with the public often and therefore my mask is only worn when someone enters my flat.
Perhaps it is a good idea to prioritise the vaccine for people who wear spectacles; however, we should not be in the very front- line.
Nurses & health care workers , doctors & those in the field of medical & dental practise & the oldies, should be vaccinated first. Then us “4-eyed humans”.
I feel fortunate as I fall in both the “oldies and spectacles” categories -a two-in-one combination posdibility for front-line priority.
An enjoyable article.
Thanks.