Saving a school tennis coach from being homeless
Nicholas Ngoma was an orphan and living on the streets before he fought his way to dignity through a talent for tennis. He has been coaching Jewish schoolchildren for years, but this ended overnight with the closure of schools and the beginning of lockdown.
On the day that Dani Silbermann and Julia Marcus heard about him, he was about to be evicted, landing back on the streets that he had fought so hard to escape. Although he had worked at King David Schools, he was not employed by them, and didn’t want to reach out to them for help.
Silbermann heard about his plight from a mother in the community. Thanks to her new initiative with Marcus, Aloan Together, they were able to help him with funds after they put out a call to the community.
“The response was unbelievable. We literally raised the funds overnight. People couldn’t stop raving about this menschedike man who pulled himself out of poverty and found tennis to be his calling,” says Silbermann. “One mother said he used to buy her son a Coke after every tennis lesson, out of his own pocket. Another said her child idolised him. Many said their kids saw him as a ‘big brother’ or mentor.
“We got donations ranging from R50 to R5 000. Children donated their pocket money. Our community stepped up and took Nicholas under their wing. People offered him a place to stay, a tennis court to work from, and coaching for their kids. Donations came from Australia, England, and New Zealand. People who had finished school years ago remembered him and donated.”
Ngoma now has a secure future, and the funds will also contribute to his advancement in tennis coaching accreditation with Tennis South Africa. “All we did was create the platform. Without our community opening their hearts and wallets, we wouldn’t have been able to help him,” say Silbermann and Marcus.
Their initiative began when Silbermann was thinking about the individuals who would lose their single-person businesses and income streams as South Africa went into lockdown. In her mind were the people she interacts with on a daily basis, such as Uber drivers or beauticians.
“I was thinking about the sectors most affected by the overnight shutdown in their ability to earn, and was most struck by individual income earners that rely solely on their self-created trade. These people survive day to day, their sole access to income their particular trade,” she says.
“For example, the Uber driver who has stretched himself to finance a car and create a micro-business suddenly can’t drive under lockdown, which means he can’t pay his car instalments. What then? It made me profoundly sad. This is the forgotten sector,” says Silbermann.
She saw no other option but to help such individuals. Realising she couldn’t do it alone, she called on the only person she knew who would take on such a task without question – her childhood best friend, Julia Marcus, a senior strategy manager at AIA Health, who lives in Melbourne.
“I’m quick to get overly invested and dive head in without much pragmatism,” says Silbermann. “So I knew I needed Julia to make it a viable reality. She’s the smartest person I know. Our skill sets work well together.”
Marcus agreed without hesitation, and within days, they had set up Aloan Together: A partnership of mutual dignity – “a platform whereby everyday people lend to everyday people, so that these individuals can survive and recover from the loss of income and future uncertainty that threatens everything they have built”.
Since the women began this work in April, they have secured 12 loans for South Africans in need. “Not one of these people has just accepted the help without question. Every single one has such pride in what they have built, and promises to do their best to pay back the loan in time so that someone else can be helped,” says Silbermann.
They identify individuals who need help, and do a thorough background check. Silbermann manages the marketing and social media to raise the funds needed, while Marcus handles the financial side. “Together we balance each other out!”
Talking to the SA Jewish Report from Melbourne, Marcus explains why this cause is so important to her even though she is so far away. “I remain deeply connected to South Africa, and I will always be committed to contributing to the well-being and success of its people. South Africa has given me so much, and will always be a place I call home.
“During a major economic crisis, one can’t help but feel a pull to help the most vulnerable. While there are so many incredible initiatives and charities doing amazing work at the moment, there are still so many people with nowhere to turn, and I want to do what I can to help.
“The sector we have focused on is un-salaried, low-income earners, many of whom fall through the cracks between support funds, non-profit organisations, and government-relief schemes,” she says. “It’s devastating to think of this sector, whose members are active contributors to the economy and usually earn their own income, but are now facing crippling financial hardship due to being unable to earn at all. It’s crucial to sustain them through the crisis, and help them to retain their ability to earn an income so that once the COVID-19 crisis passes, they can go back to earning a living.”
She explains that the loans are raised through crowdfunding, where “many small contributions come together to have a profound impact on someone’s life. In this way, we can unlock the barriers to accessing traditional loans that would usually prevent this sector from the short-term funding they need.
“The loan concept is central to the structure. Not only does providing an interest-free loan create a genuine partnership of mutual dignity, but the same amount of money can go a lot further. We work on a pay-it-forward system, which means that loans that are repaid can be re-invested into the fund [if the sponsor elects to do so], and the same initial contribution can be used to help the next person in need. And so the cycle goes. In this way, a given amount of money can help a multiple of the number of people a once-off donation can.”
“I didn’t know people cared about me,” Ngoma says. “Things were very bad, but now I’m okay. I really appreciate everything.”
Aloan Together will keep going as more people reach out for help. To the South African Jewish community, its founders say a “profound thank you. It’s a privilege to fundraise with you.”
To support this initiative, visit www.aloannotalone.co.za
- If a member of the Jewish community needs financial assistance, please approach the Chevrah Kadisha, the Rambam Trust, or the newly established Gesher Fund.
Joburg – city of architects and dreamers
In spite of its reputation for being the “engine room” of the country, Johannesburg has many elegant, experimental buildings designed by Jewish architects.
Johannesburg Heritage Foundation’s Flo Bird and Brian McKechnie recently took viewers on a virtual tour of many of these buildings, downtown and uptown. Some of them have fallen into disrepair, but they are still a testament to innovation, and continue to contribute to the lives of those who live and work in them.
The tour, unusually, linked the buildings to their creators’ graves at Westpark Cemetery, with epitaphs contributing to our understanding of who they were.
“This tour was inspired by encountering the graves of architects whose work I loved,” Bird said, pointing out that a virtual tour allows us to traverse the large Westpark Jewish Cemetery with ease.
It started with Morrie (MJ) Jacob, who died in 1950. Jacob designed the Doornfontein Synagogue (1905) otherwise known as the Lions Shul, named for the bronze lions on either side of the stairs. In its day, Doornfontein was a desirable address for Jews. Though today the shul is squashed up against Joe Slovo Drive with an ugly fence, it’s still loved for its beauty and unusual touches like minarets, stone columns, and basilica-like space.
Another one of Jacob’s buildings, Cohn’s Pharmacy in Pageview (1906), is an example of the city’s obsession with corner buildings, which tended to be far more elegant and accentuated than those in the middle of the block. Jacob’s Jewish Guild War Memorial building in the old city centre (1922/23) is a pile of an Edwardian building which also celebrates its corner status.
Israel Wayburne (1983) is known, among other things, for employing famous activist and communist Rusty Bernstein. He’s responsible for a number of the maisonette flats (two down, two up) in Yeoville.
“Each building contributes to an interesting and varied landscape [compared, say, to monotonous Fourways],” said Bird.
One of his most well-known buildings is, in fact, the ohel at Westpark, which has a religious and aesthetic function (in spite of an unsightly drainpipe addition at the front). “Luckily Issie doesn’t have to see it as his grave is on the other side of the building,” Bird commented.
Louis Theodore Obel (1956), who was in partnership with his brother, Mark, was a graduate of the University of the Witwatersrand (Wits) – as were many of the architects mentioned. Obel and Obel made a great contribution to art deco architecture, including the Barbican Building (1930), which was the tallest building in Johannesburg at the time, Astor Mansions, one of Joburg’s first skyscrapers, and Beacon Royale flats (1934), at the bottom of Yeoville on Louis Botha Avenue.
Maurice Cowen (1990) contributed to the decorative facades of many of Joburg’s best-known schools, including Parktown Girls and Jeppe Boys, and the panels gracing 1930s-era Dunvegan Chambers, Roehampton Court, Shakespeare House, and Broadcast House in the Johannesburg CBD. The latter was the original home of the South African Broadcasting Corporation. The crazy antennae designed for the top of this building didn’t have any real function, McKechnie said, though it copied the antennae on top of the BBC, and there was briefly the idea of using it to dock airships.
Another Wits graduate, Leopold Grinker (1973), was an anti-establishment figure who disliked modernism. Grinker’s Normandie Court (1937) in Delvers Street, Newtown, combines art deco with his obsession with the streamlined form of ships. So too does Daventry Court in Killarney (also built in the 1930s), which was Killarney’s first modern block of flats.
Harold Leroith (also a Wits’ alma mater) is best known for designing Temple Emanuel in Parktown (1954). This minimalist, modern building has concrete recesses which make it sculptural and provide shade for its windows. It also shows concern for materials like stone and face brick.
Leroith also designed Redoma Court, which architects consider one of Johannesburg’s best buildings, and the iconic, shiplike San Remo (1937) Both are sadly in a dilapidated state in Yeoville.
Monty Sack, an architect and artist and another Wits graduate, (2009), incorporated the work of artists in Killarney Hills built on top of Killarney Ridge, built to house actors for the studio of American financier Isidore Schlesinger.
Sidney Abramowitch (2016) passionately lobbied to save Joburg’s historical buildings such as the Markham Building, and is known for designing Innes Chambers in 1963, now used by the National Prosecuting Authority. This unusual building with Y-shaped columns representing the scales of justice, was covered with mosaics, which recently had to be painstakingly restored.
Lastly, the tour touched on the work of Gerald Gordon (2016), also a Wits graduate, who the group described as “an outstanding brain who was unable to limit himself to any single factor”. Gordon, who incubated many of South Africa’s best-known architects in his many years of lecturing at Wits, is best known for designing mountain houses on Linksfield Ridge, such as 7 New Mountain Road (early 70s), which literally cling to the edges of cliffs.
He’s also known for developing a new construction method he named “thin-skin architecture” which uses no bricks and is extremely strong because of its monocoque construction (a type of construction used in cars and aeroplanes).
Like many others, the brilliance and bravery of these Jewish architects leaves a legacy that can’t be eradicated.
Nominations open for a historic Jewish Achiever Awards
The Absa Jewish Achiever Awards 2020 is now open for nominations.
Just when you thought nothing familiar and fabulous was going to happen, the SA Jewish Report is calling you onboard to begin its journey to this year’s Absa Jewish Achiever Awards.
COVID-19 may have brought live entertainment and events to a grinding halt, but this year’s awards will be held in a format that will make history and give ample recognition to those who have achieved great things.
This is the 22nd year of this unique awards ceremony in which Jewish individuals are acknowledged for the powerful, influential, and life-changing roles they play in South Africa. The Absa Jewish Achiever Awards acknowledges those who deserve recognition for their contributions to society, paying tribute to the men and women who have enhanced our community.
Scheduled to take place in mid-October, the annual extravaganza evening will go ahead in spite of a host of virus-related challenges.
“For the first time in the event’s history, we will be holding an online-offline event,” says Howard Sackstein, the chairperson of the SA Jewish Report. “While the actual event will be streamed live for people to watch without being present, guests will still be able to take part in this incredible event.”
Sackstein explains that while tables can be purchased as usual, the seating is virtual, as guests will experience a gourmet dining experience in the comfort of their own homes while watching the live event.
“Those who buy tables will have their meal delivered to their home, from cocktails to dessert,” says Sackstein. “We will also feature a virtual red carpet, with guests taking photos of themselves at home and sharing them online.”
While they tuck into their meal at home, guests will enjoy a livestream of the event, enjoying the evening’s entertainment and awards.
The awards are another area where exciting changes have been made.
“While guests are eating and watching the event, award winners will be announced live and have their awards handed over to them at home by a team waiting to ring their doorbell. This means that guests will actually see the handover of the award, and feel as though they are still part of the event without actually being there.”
Some of the award categories have also been transformed. In spite of the challenges posed by our trying circumstances, members of our community remain determined to stand out and make tangible contributions, and the awards need to reflect this, Sackstein says.
“Beyond being online, the event must be experiential in that it is relevant to the times in which we are living,” he says.
“COVID-19 has ensured that the Absa Jewish Achiever Awards has changed, and certain award categories have been adjusted to reflect our reality. Business leadership in the time of COVID will replace the usual Business Leadership Award, the Professional Excellence award will become the Professional Excellence in COVID award. Other categories will be similarly adjusted.”
Changes like these are essential, Sackstein says.
“Awards which ignore our circumstances would be meaningless,” he says. “We have moved to recognise those doing remarkable work and their efforts at this very moment which are most relevant to our community.
“We are celebrating our heroes. Heroes emerge in moments like these. Ordinary people have really grasped the mantle of leadership and provided such a remarkable example that we should all emulate.”
Every member of our community is encouraged to participate in acknowledging the tremendous efforts of those who have risen to the occasion of COVID-19 and beyond.
“While a lot of people are depressed and fatalistic about our reality, others have seen the opportunities it offers and striven to make our lives so much better,” says Sackstein. “We have to recognise and celebrate them, using them as an example of what we can do in these difficult times.”
Neighbour snatches family from fire
A fast-acting neighbour has been hailed as a hero for rescuing a young family whose flat was moments away from being engulfed in smoke and flames.
Last Thursday night, Jonathan Penn and his heavily pregnant wife Simone put their children and themselves to bed early due to unscheduled load-shedding, which plunged their flat on the third floor of Glen Manor in Glenhazel into darkness.
The couple ate an early dinner while it was still light enough to see, and were tucked up in bed by 18:30 with their two children, Judah, 5, and Ayden, 3, in the main bedroom with them.
Simone had lit candles to provide some soft ambient lighting, including a vanilla scented Yankee Candle on the mantle.
Sometime later, the family was shaken awake by frantic, loud banging on their front door and screams to get out.
The Penns were oblivious to the fire which had broken out in their kitchen just a few doors away.
Neighbours Marlon Nathan and his daughter, Tali, were arriving home after fetching takeaways when they saw rising flames in the kitchen of the flat next door to theirs. Had they been a few minutes earlier, they wouldn’t have seen the fire.
“As we rounded the stairs and turned left, we saw flames and thick black smoke coming from Jonathan and Simone’s kitchen. We dumped our bags and takeaways, and rushed to try get them out of there,” said Tali, 23.
Working together, the father and daughter team sprang into action and began screaming and knocking at the door to the flat. Pandemonium ensued as the family jumped out of bed and were greeted by a wall of smoke.
Simone, who writes a blog titled Mothers’ Nature, related her experience the next day. “In the glass windowpane above the front door we could see burning orange reflections. We all started to cough. We couldn’t breathe. The children were screaming. Jonny was trying to pull us away from the flames and the smoke into the lounge. He was scared the blaze was in the passage. He knew not to touch the handles. He knew not to open any doors. He thought we were trapped.
“I fumbled with the keys, one arm over my mouth. I couldn’t remember how keys worked. I couldn’t remember how the door worked.”
She told the SA Jewish Report that at that moment, she feared for their lives.
As Marlon was about to kick down the front door, it opened, and frantically, he pulled Simone, Judah, and Ayden out. The little girl, disorientated, ran back inside when she couldn’t see her father through the smoke. Marlon ran headlong into the smoke to retrieve her.
Tali, a student nurse currently working the COVID-19 wards at Milpark Hospital, said, “I’ve seen my share of trauma, but it’s entirely different when you see your father dash into a fire.”
Once the family was safe, Marlon said his focus turned to extinguishing the fire which was getting out of control.
“My priority was first to get the family out of the flat, and then to contain the spread of the fire. There are 88 flats with many elderly residents. I had no time to think about anything other than putting out that fire,” he said.
Jonathan and Marlon ran through the building collecting fire extinguishers to battle the flames.
Security guard Prince Elliot used large buckets of water to put out the last of the fire.
A distraught Judah was worried about his two birds, Tweety and Koko, whom he had left behind in all the commotion. He was calmed when a firefighter much later appeared clutching a perfectly intact bird cage containing two finches.
“That was when I broke down. Every single Penn was safe and accounted for,” said Simone.
The family believe a surge caused by the power outage caused a spark which ignited the fire. “We suspect a spark landed on a large tablecloth I had folded in the kitchen,” said Simone.
Relieved and grateful, she said, “I think Hashem sent angels in the form of Marlon and Tali, and then Prince. But of course we owe everything to Marlon. We owe him our life. He and Tali appeared at the exact right moment. I shudder to think what five minutes either way would have meant.”
Marlon, 56, who has been treated for smoke inhalation said, “I’m not a hero. I just did what anybody in that situation would’ve done.”
He was meant to be in Israel for his daughter’s wedding, but cancelled his trip the day before the fire. His daughter says she now knows why. “He was meant to be here to save lives,” she said.
“I believe the family was minutes away from dying. The smoke was so heavy and thick, they would have died in their beds. They wouldn’t have got to the front door. You could hardly see them when they came out. It was scary,” said Marlon.
A firefighter told the SA Jewish Report it could have ended very differently. “This was a potentially deadly fire. One flat can take out the building. There are many different people living there with different needs, including elderly in wheelchairs. There is a petrol station next to it and restaurants. It was potentially very dangerous.”
The Penns say their experience has taught them a lot about fire prevention. They recommend keeping a fire extinguisher, installing smoke alarms, turning off the mains when the power is cut, and installing surge plugs for appliances.
Both the Penns and the Nathans are living with family members while their homes are cleaned and repaired.
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