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From words to deeds – why it’s important to challenge racist comments

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(JTA) If I have learned anything over the past month, it’s that racist tropes aren’t harmless words. They must be actively and consistently challenged.

You know them, and so do I. The racist tropes peddled about Jewish people are plentiful. What you may not know is that antisemitic tropes caused my friends and me to be held hostage at Congregation Beth Israel in Colleyville, Texas.

Our Shabbat morning service on 15 January began normally. I had just sat down after the morning Amidah. Within a few seconds, I heard that unmistakable sound of an automatic pistol chambering a bullet. A man we invited into the synagogue on that cold morning so he could warm up was screaming. He waved his gun at us, and threatened to blow us up with a bomb.

Without turning around, I picked up my phone from the chair next to me, dialed 911, and returned it, screen side down, to the chair. I stood up and faced our attacker. I slowly moved so that I was in line with an exit. Many of you saw the headlines, and are aware of the terror that unfolded over the next 11 hours. One of us was released after about six hours; the other three, including Rabbi Charlie Cytron-Walker and me, escaped by running out a side door five hours after that.

We were fortunate. This man wasn’t like the attackers in Pittsburgh, Poway, or Paris. Instead of a hate-filled white supremacist who wanted to kill as many Jews as possible, our attacker had a specific demand. He wanted to free a person being held in a United States federal correction centre. And he thought we could get that done.

“Jews pull all the strings. Jews control the banks. Jews control the media. Jews control the government,” he repeatedly told us.

He demanded we get the “chief rabbi of the United States” on the phone. Both Rabbi Cytron-Walker and I explained that, unlike the United Kingdom where our attacker was from, there’s no head rabbi in the US – not that a chief rabbi would have that kind of power in the first place.

Our attacker frequently told us not to worry because President Joe Biden and former President Donald Trump would listen to his demands rather than allow even one Jew to get hurt. He had clearly bathed in racist tropes about my community.

People who say “sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me” don’t know what Jewish people live with on a day-to-day basis. They don’t understand what other marginalised communities live with either. Words have caused – and will continue to cause – harm. And those little throw-away tropes that we all endure may be the most damaging because, when repeated often enough, people begin to believe them.

When not addressed directly, racist tropes make all of us bystanders to hatred and participants in another’s suffering. We expect them from the skinheads, and we hope good people will ignore them. We roll our eyes as our friend winces and apologises for the crazy older relative whom everyone accepts is a racist. We live in a society where we hold onto the premise that racists are the minority. We say nothing because we don’t want to bring attention to ourselves or to the comments. Sometimes we even tell ourselves that “we’re stronger than those who hate us”. We very well may be. But that doesn’t mean that the actions of the hateful should be coddled or tolerated.

I say “we” because up until recently, I didn’t speak up either. But racist tropes don’t automatically dissipate. They must be challenged consistently and vigorously.

How many of us have been taught that if we ignore the taunt and don’t engage the bully, the bully will go away? That didn’t work in elementary school; it won’t work now. Words matter. Words influence. Repeated racist tropes dehumanise. Unchallenged words signal acceptance.

As I reflect on how to challenge hatred, here are several things I’m committing to do:

First, question what I hear, in the moment and on the spot. I will do better about asking, “Did I hear you correctly? What did you just say?” By making the speakers repeat what they say, I believe we can force them to acknowledge their words and confront social norms. It also empowers others to speak out as well.

Second, inform the individual that their comment is unacceptable. I will do better about sharing in the moment something like, “Statements like that aren’t acceptable here.” I don’t believe it’s helpful to call the speaker a racist or antisemitic because I don’t want people to shut down and not hear what I’m saying.

And third, respond to the trope with truth and appeal to the speaker’s sense of right and wrong. I might share, “Both the fascists and communists used antisemitic tropes as propaganda. They needed a scapegoat to blame for their failings. Don’t follow in their footsteps.”

Will that approach keep the attacker out of the next synagogue or black church, or from stalking another Asian-American woman? Probably not. But if we don’t challenge racist tropes, we have no hope that they’ll ever stop. Far too many people will be threatened and harmed, and I don’t want anyone else to go through what I did.

  • Jeffrey R. Cohen lives and works near Fort Worth, Texas. He is the vice-president of Congregation Beth Israel in Colleyville, Texas, and was one of the four hostages who escaped a gunman on 15 January 2022.

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  1. Manajemen

    Aug 27, 2023 at 12:57 pm

    Can you provide more details about the incident that occurred during your Shabbat morning service on 15 January? What actions were taken by the congregation and the authorities in response to the threat posed by the individual with the gun?

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